Communication Between Patients & Clinicians in the Age of AI
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- 00:00Started. We have a pretty
- 00:01full program today. I'm Roy
- 00:03Herbst,
- 00:04from,
- 00:05hematology oncology, the the cancer
- 00:07center. And, I thought we'd
- 00:09start by saying a few
- 00:10words about the Iris Fisher
- 00:11lectureship,
- 00:12which is endowed by David
- 00:14Fisher,
- 00:15in nineteen ninety nine.
- 00:17And, I know that his,
- 00:19their his daughters their daughters,
- 00:20Francie and Karen, are online
- 00:22with their spouses and their
- 00:23grandchildren,
- 00:24and, we'd certainly welcome you
- 00:26to come in future years.
- 00:27David passed away,
- 00:29this year or last year,
- 00:31so he's not here. But
- 00:32I I remember over the
- 00:33last fourteen years sitting in
- 00:34the front row hearing him
- 00:35introduce this lecture and realizing
- 00:37how important it was to
- 00:38him.
- 00:39On the next slide,
- 00:43you can see see David.
- 00:45He was involved with the
- 00:46Yale School of Medicine for
- 00:47nearly sixty years. He was
- 00:49the first medical oncologist in
- 00:51the New Haven community,
- 00:52but sometimes people debated that,
- 00:54and he remained in private
- 00:55practice for thirty years before
- 00:57joining Yale Cancer Center in
- 00:58nineteen ninety three as a
- 01:00volunteer in full time in
- 01:01nineteen ninety five. This fellow
- 01:03has volunteered in more than
- 01:04many of the faculty who
- 01:05we paid.
- 01:06He chaired and co chaired
- 01:07the cancer committee for Yale
- 01:08Cancer Center, Yale New Haven
- 01:10Hospital since nineteen ninety seven.
- 01:13Among his other things, he
- 01:14was very involved with hospice.
- 01:15He was on the board
- 01:15of Connecticut Hospice. He also
- 01:17won the twenty twenty,
- 01:19Yale Cancer Center lifetime achievement
- 01:21award. You can see from
- 01:22these pictures, you can see
- 01:23he was a, you know,
- 01:24a a stalwart in the
- 01:25Jewish community on the left.
- 01:27You can see him with
- 01:28some of the kids and,
- 01:29you know, wearing his Yale
- 01:30hat. And especially important for
- 01:31me is when I first
- 01:32came here, I said to
- 01:33David, we need to emphasize
- 01:35education and teaching. And David
- 01:37actually sponsored. And to this
- 01:38day, we give out the
- 01:39David Fisher Awards in hematology
- 01:42and oncology for teaching and
- 01:43mentorship.
- 01:44And, you can see David,
- 01:46that's about eight, nine years
- 01:47ago.
- 01:48These lectures, as I say,
- 01:49have been extraordinary, and you'll
- 01:50hear about today's, speaker who's
- 01:52amazing.
- 01:53Quality of life issues held
- 01:54more than a professional interest
- 01:55for David.
- 01:57These issues were are a
- 01:58personal concern for him and
- 01:59his wife, Iris. And this
- 02:01is actually
- 02:02the the lecture he dedicated
- 02:03in her honor who was
- 02:05a brilliant concert pianist. I'm
- 02:07sorry I never heard her
- 02:08play, but I had been
- 02:09to David's house a few
- 02:09times, so I did see
- 02:11pictures. And she was diagnosed
- 02:12with sarcoidosis,
- 02:13which is, of course, a
- 02:14very painful and incurable disease
- 02:15of the heart and lungs.
- 02:17The couple's treatment decisions were
- 02:18weighed and balanced against the
- 02:19impact of therapies that were
- 02:21they would have on her
- 02:21personal well-being, hence his his,
- 02:24desire for for this lecture.
- 02:25This is, like, the twentieth
- 02:26lecture.
- 02:27It even went on through
- 02:28COVID.
- 02:29Doctor Fisher's hope was that
- 02:30this lectureship would serve as
- 02:32a lasting memorial to his
- 02:33wife, Iris, while providing an
- 02:35extra occupational opportunity for our
- 02:36physicians and staff for the
- 02:38benefit of our patients at
- 02:39the cancer center.
- 02:40Both are missed.
- 02:42David, we miss you enormously.
- 02:43Your wonderful presence. You cared
- 02:45about the patient. You're a
- 02:46brilliant clinician and scientist.
- 02:48So, we're thinking of you
- 02:49today. And now I'm gonna
- 02:50turn this over to Laura
- 02:51Morrison to introduce today's speaker.
- 03:01Alright. Hi, everyone, and welcome
- 03:04to Smilo Grand Rounds today.
- 03:07I'm privileged with my colleague,
- 03:08Jen Capo, to introduce our
- 03:11guest speaker.
- 03:13I am,
- 03:15one of the hospice and
- 03:16palliative medicine doctors here at
- 03:19Yale. I serve as an
- 03:20attending on the York Street
- 03:21campus, and I direct our,
- 03:24palliative medicine education program.
- 03:27And within that, direct our
- 03:29our Yale serious illness communication
- 03:31program.
- 03:33And Jen Capo
- 03:35is our chief of palliative
- 03:36care.
- 03:38Doctor Bach is our guest
- 03:40speaker today. Tony Bach has
- 03:42been a mentor to both
- 03:43of us for over a
- 03:44decade,
- 03:46even in developing our program
- 03:48here at Yale.
- 03:50He's an internationally
- 03:52renowned,
- 03:54palliative care specialist and innovator
- 03:56and researcher.
- 04:00He is currently a professor
- 04:02of medicine at the University
- 04:04of Washington,
- 04:05where he is also a
- 04:07board certified oncologist and palliative
- 04:09care specialist.
- 04:13On the innovation front,
- 04:15he is best known for
- 04:17being a cofounder of what's
- 04:18called VitalTalk.
- 04:20VitalTalk is a national, a
- 04:22nonprofit
- 04:24that was founded
- 04:26to further serious illness communication
- 04:28and make it more accessible
- 04:30and of higher quality for
- 04:32our patients and their families.
- 04:35What's unique about the model
- 04:36is
- 04:37really creating a skill set
- 04:40that can be
- 04:41both,
- 04:43taught and learned
- 04:45and disseminated
- 04:46widely internationally
- 04:48and nationally.
- 04:50And I think what I
- 04:51wanted to share that I
- 04:52appreciate the most
- 04:54really about the innovative model
- 04:56that doctor Bach and his
- 04:57cofounders
- 04:58created was really the spirit
- 05:00of curiosity
- 05:02and drawing upon
- 05:04expertise from
- 05:06many peripheral,
- 05:08fields,
- 05:09even the start up environment
- 05:11that's so rich in the
- 05:12Bay Area,
- 05:14but also from k through
- 05:15twelve education,
- 05:17the literature of psychology,
- 05:20specifically adult learning theory,
- 05:22the field of mindfulness
- 05:24and the science of communication.
- 05:27And I think it's just
- 05:28something for us all to
- 05:29really
- 05:30appreciate and carry forward.
- 05:35Great. And I just wanted
- 05:36to share, one one small
- 05:38example of how doctor Brock
- 05:40actually has influenced the Yale
- 05:41palliative care program.
- 05:43Back in two thousand ten
- 05:45when I was being recruited
- 05:46by Tom Lynch who was
- 05:47the cancer center director at
- 05:48that time,
- 05:50doctor Lynch asked me to
- 05:51envision what Yale Palliative Medicine
- 05:54could be with the right
- 05:55vision and the right mission.
- 05:57And it happened at that
- 05:58time where I received this
- 05:59request to be at a
- 06:00retreat for rising,
- 06:02leaders of the palliative care
- 06:04field. In fact, Andrew Putnam
- 06:06and Laura Morrison were, with
- 06:07me at that retreat, and
- 06:09I happened to be assigned
- 06:10to Tony Bach as a
- 06:12mentee.
- 06:13And he graciously spent over
- 06:15an hour walking around this
- 06:17beautiful lake, in Illinois,
- 06:19talking to me about what
- 06:21Yale Palliative Care could be.
- 06:23And after that meeting, I
- 06:24knew that this was gonna
- 06:25be an amazing opportunity.
- 06:27So it's partially,
- 06:29probably
- 06:30really importantly due to that
- 06:32conversation that I experienced with
- 06:33doctor Bach that I came
- 06:34here, and I've had this
- 06:36amazing last fifteen years,
- 06:38interacting with all of you
- 06:39and having the chance to
- 06:40grow palliative care here with
- 06:41this amazing interdisciplinary team with
- 06:43whom I work. So thank
- 06:44you. We're grateful. We're so
- 06:46thrilled you're here, and we're
- 06:47looking forward to your talk.
- 06:55Well, thank you so much.
- 06:56Can you guys hear me,
- 06:57miss Mari? Okay.
- 07:00While we get our slide
- 07:01switched, I'm gonna do two
- 07:02things. I would like you
- 07:03to, first, turn to the
- 07:06person next to you. And
- 07:07if you don't know them,
- 07:08introduce them yourself.
- 07:09Or if you do know
- 07:10them, say hello and have
- 07:12a quick check-in.
- 07:14And then the second thing
- 07:15is, can you spend a
- 07:17moment then remembering
- 07:19one of your teachers, one
- 07:21of the people who taught
- 07:22you something important about communication?
- 07:25So go forward, and we
- 07:26will I will be back
- 07:27with you in about a
- 07:27minute. Thank you.
- 07:30Why don't you do the
- 07:31honors
- 07:36there? Thank you, everybody.
- 07:41Thank you.
- 07:45Thank you for coming and
- 07:46starting in kind of an
- 07:47untraditional way.
- 07:49One of the things
- 07:51I am interested in, especially
- 07:54now that we can get
- 07:55back together, is what makes
- 07:58something worth coming to in
- 07:59person. Right? And I would,
- 08:03propose
- 08:04that
- 08:05part of the ritual of
- 08:06coming together for a discussion
- 08:09about how do we practice,
- 08:10how do we improve, how
- 08:12do we reflect on what
- 08:13we're doing, is actually
- 08:15seeing your community and being
- 08:17together. And and I think
- 08:18it's one of the things
- 08:19that we kind of lost
- 08:20during COVID that,
- 08:22we are now rebuilding.
- 08:24So thank you for doing
- 08:25that. I'm just curious of
- 08:26those of you who thought
- 08:27about someone who
- 08:30from whom you learned something
- 08:31important about communication. For how
- 08:33many of you was it
- 08:34a patient? Can you raise
- 08:35your hand? A few. How
- 08:37many was it a mentor?
- 08:39How many was it someone
- 08:40else? A family member or
- 08:42friend or something like that?
- 08:44Well, thank you. Because I
- 08:45think what that shows is
- 08:49how we learn to relate
- 08:51to each other is actually
- 08:53a combination of many things.
- 08:55It's not just a skill
- 08:56set. It's not just something
- 08:57you learn online and learn
- 08:59on an app. It's actually
- 09:00learn in a relational context.
- 09:02And so that's one of
- 09:03the things I'm gonna be
- 09:04coming back to today.
- 09:06Here's my title slide. And
- 09:07so my title slide, disclosures,
- 09:09I don't have any formal
- 09:11disclosures, but I will just
- 09:12say that this title slide,
- 09:14I, created using AI. Just
- 09:16in the spirit of this
- 09:18talk.
- 09:18And you'll notice it's a
- 09:20little bit too much and
- 09:21a little bit not enough
- 09:22all at the same time.
- 09:23Right?
- 09:24I asked for an Asian
- 09:25doctor,
- 09:26and I said I got
- 09:28this and I said, actually,
- 09:29I think I need someone
- 09:30older, and it made me
- 09:31some made me look way
- 09:32too old, and so I
- 09:33went back to this. But,
- 09:36you know, these days, you
- 09:37know, you can go to
- 09:38chat g p t and
- 09:39go, you know, can you
- 09:41write me a talk? And,
- 09:43if you wanna do this,
- 09:44you can look at all
- 09:45the stuff it scraped from
- 09:47all the stuff in that
- 09:48I put in the medical
- 09:49literature, and you could probably
- 09:50get something from it. But
- 09:52what AI can't do,
- 09:54what it cannot do is
- 09:56it cannot meet this moment.
- 09:58Right? And we are meeting
- 10:00today at a very
- 10:02a very distinctive moment in
- 10:03the history of our country,
- 10:04in the history of medicine.
- 10:06And just to channel,
- 10:08doctor Sherwin Newland, Shep Newland,
- 10:10who's part of the reason,
- 10:12that I am here,
- 10:14he, in reviewing
- 10:17an amazing book called The
- 10:18Spirit Catches You and It
- 10:19Falls Down in The New
- 10:21Republic back in,
- 10:22nineteen ninety seven, he said,
- 10:25the challenge
- 10:26as a doctor, he's talking
- 10:27about, is to respond to
- 10:29a reality whose enormous consequences
- 10:32are too often underestimated or
- 10:34ignored. Patients bring to doctors
- 10:36not only their diseases,
- 10:38but their entire lives. And
- 10:40so by channeling Shep, I
- 10:42I'd like to just put
- 10:43out here that
- 10:45what we are doing in
- 10:46medicine right this moment is
- 10:48we are still responding to
- 10:50this challenge. Right? And the
- 10:51challenge changes
- 10:53every time new technology comes
- 10:55in, and that's partly what
- 10:56we're doing now.
- 10:58But what I wanna step
- 10:59back to is,
- 11:01like, as we think about
- 11:02why we are communicating and
- 11:04what we are here to
- 11:05do, it is so easy
- 11:07to look at what is
- 11:08happening now, the slash and
- 11:09burn politics of what is
- 11:11happening,
- 11:12the undercutting of the NIH,
- 11:14and to and
- 11:15to think, wait a minute,
- 11:16is is public is medicine
- 11:18just a business?
- 11:19And actually, the reality is
- 11:21it is not a business.
- 11:23Medicine is a public good.
- 11:25Right? There are economics to
- 11:27medicine. We need to fund
- 11:28it. We need to make
- 11:29it sustainable.
- 11:30We need to make it
- 11:31possible for all of you
- 11:33to spend the time with
- 11:35patients that they deserve and
- 11:36that you deserve to do
- 11:38the best job that you
- 11:39could. But the reality is
- 11:41that is not part of
- 11:42a business plan that we
- 11:44can just, by squeeze, by
- 11:45pushing people onto AI to
- 11:48order their exams for themselves.
- 11:50Right? Like, we could get
- 11:51to the point where they
- 11:52could order a CT scan
- 11:53through their app or whatever,
- 11:55but actually, that is not
- 11:57the kind of medicine that
- 11:58I would wager that any
- 11:59of us would wanna practice.
- 12:01You know, when I was
- 12:02starting my career, this was,
- 12:05a while ago, nineteen eighty
- 12:06four, you know, one of
- 12:07the reigning
- 12:09new kinds of thinking was
- 12:11actually by a Yalie. This
- 12:12was, doctor Jay Katz. He
- 12:14was a physician and a
- 12:15lawyer here at Yale, and
- 12:17he wrote an incredibly influential
- 12:19book, The Silent World of
- 12:21Doctor and Patient, which actually
- 12:24still stands as
- 12:26a milestone in the field
- 12:27about
- 12:28how patients
- 12:29behave and how doctors behave
- 12:32together. And the silent world
- 12:34he was talking about was
- 12:35a kind of silence where
- 12:38patients didn't really say what
- 12:39they thought. Doctors said everything
- 12:41that they thought, and there
- 12:42was a kind of silence
- 12:44in between them. And part
- 12:45of his innovation
- 12:47was to say at the
- 12:49level of ethics, at the
- 12:50level of someone in the
- 12:51field, that we should actually
- 12:53break this open, that we
- 12:55should
- 12:56expose
- 12:57this whole conversation
- 12:59to real air. And
- 13:01he was an innovator in
- 13:02his time. Of course, he
- 13:04was an academic. Right? And
- 13:06so this was happening in
- 13:07the happening in the halls
- 13:08of academia.
- 13:10Outside, the same year, right,
- 13:12this was, the year I
- 13:13graduated from medical school as
- 13:15a young gay man.
- 13:17This was happening. Right? We
- 13:19were in the middle of
- 13:20the AIDS epidemic.
- 13:22People my age were dying
- 13:23left and right.
- 13:25I was watching
- 13:26patients in my medical school,
- 13:29being treated like, honestly, like
- 13:31specimens at the zoo. They
- 13:33would come into Durham clinic,
- 13:34and we would all parade
- 13:35by and stare at their
- 13:36Kaposi sarcoma
- 13:38and make, you know, snotty
- 13:40jokes in the hallway about
- 13:42how they had gotten it.
- 13:43But what these guys taught
- 13:45us is that it is
- 13:47not okay
- 13:48just to sit down
- 13:51and wait for other people
- 13:52to help you. Right? I,
- 13:53as a gay man in
- 13:55that time, I can tell
- 13:56you that the situation looked
- 13:57pretty bleak. It was pretty
- 13:58obvious the government wasn't gonna
- 14:00help us. It was pretty
- 14:01obvious
- 14:02pharma wasn't gonna help us.
- 14:04What were we to do?
- 14:05And and the fact was
- 14:06it took a whole series
- 14:08of kinds of
- 14:09public action
- 14:11and articulation
- 14:12of what was needed
- 14:13and creation of whole new
- 14:16models of care that included
- 14:18hospice, that included palliative care.
- 14:20And so in many ways,
- 14:21my career
- 14:22was developed in the crucible
- 14:25of one of the most
- 14:27devastating
- 14:28epidemics of our time. And
- 14:30the lessons here from
- 14:32what they did as social
- 14:34change agents is still with
- 14:36us, and I'm here to
- 14:38remind you about them today
- 14:40because we still need them.
- 14:41We need them now more
- 14:43than ever. Right?
- 14:45The public good of medicine
- 14:47actually isn't something that lives
- 14:50in the insurance companies. It's
- 14:52not something that lives in
- 14:53the libraries or the Internet.
- 14:55It lives in community.
- 14:57The public good
- 14:58of what medicine means lives
- 15:01here in this community, and
- 15:02that's why I asked you
- 15:03to introduce yourself or catch
- 15:04up with each other. That's
- 15:06why I asked you who
- 15:07else in your life had
- 15:09really influenced you because you
- 15:10are all part of these
- 15:12big communities
- 15:13that create
- 15:15ideas and standards and practices
- 15:18about what it means to
- 15:19care for each other.
- 15:21Right? And I learned that
- 15:23from a whole bunch of,
- 15:25gay men who actually died
- 15:27and gave their lives for
- 15:28this moment. They didn't have
- 15:30anything, but they had community.
- 15:32And it was a really
- 15:34powerful lesson for me that
- 15:35I did not expect because
- 15:36I thought, well, they're not
- 15:37they don't have Ivy League
- 15:38degrees. They don't have,
- 15:41experience. They don't know how
- 15:42the system works. But here's
- 15:43what happened is they learned
- 15:45how the system works. They
- 15:46got onto the NIH study
- 15:48sections. They got onto the
- 15:50front page of the New
- 15:51York Times. And by doing
- 15:52that, that multi pronged approach
- 15:55that was a part of
- 15:57social change at the time,
- 15:58that changed the world, and
- 16:00it changed how we practice
- 16:02medicine today. Right? That's not
- 16:04the only kind of community.
- 16:05Here's here's the community around,
- 16:08a woman, who had breast
- 16:10cancer, Jennifer Marandino.
- 16:11This is her rowing community
- 16:13that she created,
- 16:14after she was diagnosed with
- 16:16a really serious breast cancer.
- 16:18And I'll get back to
- 16:19her later because, you know,
- 16:20this is a community of
- 16:22people
- 16:23that you don't see who
- 16:26are behind every one of
- 16:28the patients who walk into
- 16:29your office. Right? And then
- 16:31here's the community of us.
- 16:32Right? One of the things
- 16:33we learned when we were
- 16:34creating VitalTalk was that we
- 16:36needed our own community of
- 16:38clinicians.
- 16:39And so this is, people
- 16:40in,
- 16:42Europe and Australia and Japan.
- 16:44This guy translated our our
- 16:46book.
- 16:47But just to show that
- 16:48a key part of what
- 16:49we were doing was we
- 16:50were not just creating skills
- 16:52to tell people what to
- 16:53do, like nobody wants to
- 16:54do that. Right? You guys
- 16:56don't wanna be told what
- 16:57to do. What is really
- 16:58powerful is a community of
- 17:00practice
- 17:01that
- 17:02creates and develops
- 17:04better ways
- 17:05of doing what we all
- 17:07do because we all own
- 17:09it, we all share it,
- 17:11and we all use it.
- 17:12Right?
- 17:14So what do I mean
- 17:16by a sense of community?
- 17:17And I will get to
- 17:18the communication part here in
- 17:19a minute.
- 17:20Community is not just a
- 17:22bunch of people together.
- 17:24Community is a sense of
- 17:25belonging.
- 17:26You are part of a
- 17:27community to the degree that
- 17:29you feel like you belong.
- 17:32And, actually, in this atomized
- 17:34age of
- 17:36Internet and apps and TikTok
- 17:38and,
- 17:39Tinder. Right? Like, swipe left,
- 17:42swipe right. That's your pretty
- 17:43soon we're gonna be selecting
- 17:44doctors like that. Right?
- 17:47The way that you feel
- 17:49like you belong
- 17:50turns out is gonna be
- 17:51a really big ticket item.
- 17:53And my prediction is after
- 17:54the attention economy, that is
- 17:56what we're in now, everyone's
- 17:57fighting for your attention, it's
- 17:58gonna be the belonging economy.
- 18:00Who do you feel connected
- 18:01to and who do you
- 18:02care about?
- 18:04This is Jennifer,
- 18:06the day she was diagnosed.
- 18:08Right? This was quite a
- 18:09while ago. Her husband, Angelo
- 18:11Marandino, is a photographer who
- 18:13lived in New York City
- 18:14at the time, and she
- 18:16was diagnosed in two o
- 18:17o seven with
- 18:19with breast cancer. It metastasized
- 18:21two years just two years
- 18:22later, and she died a
- 18:23year and a half after
- 18:24that. I mean, this was
- 18:25the old days of breast
- 18:26cancer.
- 18:27And they decided to,
- 18:30document her journey
- 18:32and publish all the photos
- 18:34publicly,
- 18:35in a way that had
- 18:36never been done before because
- 18:37they wanted to open up
- 18:39the experience of people living
- 18:41with a serious illness. And
- 18:42so I'll show you some
- 18:43of his photographs, and they
- 18:45are quite remarkable. And as
- 18:46you can see,
- 18:48this is not an AI
- 18:49creation.
- 18:50Right? There is something in
- 18:52her presence and how he's
- 18:54captured it that makes her
- 18:56predicament
- 18:57as a person living with
- 18:59a serious illness
- 19:01immediately
- 19:02palpable.
- 19:03Right?
- 19:04And, of course,
- 19:06you know, this is the
- 19:07pre iPhone, pre selfie days.
- 19:10He was documenting her experience
- 19:12in a way that actually
- 19:13was starting to teach everybody,
- 19:14teach all of us what
- 19:16it meant to really live
- 19:17with a serious illness.
- 19:18Right?
- 19:19And, you know, as a
- 19:21young woman,
- 19:23who's facing something that she
- 19:24didn't really wanna face, you
- 19:26know, who knew
- 19:28how all of this would
- 19:29unfold? And I will say
- 19:30that one of the things
- 19:31that you don't see here
- 19:33in these pictures
- 19:34is how the breast cancer
- 19:36activists
- 19:37who took over
- 19:39the development
- 19:40of what breast cancer therapy
- 19:42has become. They actually took
- 19:44lessons from the AIDS activists.
- 19:46And the reason they took
- 19:47lessons from them
- 19:49was to find out how
- 19:50to make their voices known,
- 19:52how to collaborate with the
- 19:54medical establishment,
- 19:55how to get funding for
- 19:57breast cancer research. And here
- 19:58we are, you know, twenty
- 20:00years later,
- 20:01and the,
- 20:02outlook for people with metastatic
- 20:04breast cancer is actually entirely
- 20:06different. And it's entirely different
- 20:08because of people like this.
- 20:10Right. And he was an
- 20:11artist
- 20:12who was doing his part,
- 20:14but what it did was
- 20:15all of a sudden, the
- 20:17stigma around cancer was you
- 20:18know, these were days when
- 20:19nobody told each other they
- 20:20had cancer, when the doctors
- 20:21didn't even always tell you
- 20:23you had cancer.
- 20:24Like, this was the kind
- 20:25of pioneering work
- 20:27that helped all of us
- 20:29create
- 20:30the need
- 20:31and the importance
- 20:33of talking frankly with the
- 20:35people that we work with.
- 20:37You know, I was talking
- 20:38with, doctor Billingsley, who's an
- 20:40old friend of mine. You
- 20:41know, we actually sat in
- 20:42a whole lot of tumor
- 20:43boards, in the Seattle VA
- 20:45back in the day. And
- 20:46he I asked him, you
- 20:47know, was there something he
- 20:48wanted me to bring up?
- 20:50And the thing that I
- 20:51he mentioned was trust. Right?
- 20:53And I think it's something
- 20:53we are all struggling with.
- 20:55Right? Like,
- 20:58what's happened all of a
- 20:59sudden? I feel like I've
- 21:00woken up twenty years later
- 21:02and nobody trusts me. Well,
- 21:04I I wanna turn to
- 21:05this theorist,
- 21:07Nicholas Lerman,
- 21:09who wrote about trust and
- 21:11power and the reciprocal relationship
- 21:13of them. Because this philosopher's
- 21:15point is that complete inter
- 21:17information
- 21:18is unattainable. Right? You could
- 21:19just never have that as
- 21:20a decision maker.
- 21:22What has happened in the
- 21:23world is that trust is
- 21:25the mechanism by which individuals
- 21:27willingly reduce uncertainty and risk.
- 21:30I put my trust in
- 21:31doctor Billingsley
- 21:33because I think he is
- 21:34a guy who could do
- 21:35a surgery that would genuinely
- 21:37help me. And I don't
- 21:38know every date detail about
- 21:40this surgery, and I don't
- 21:41even know that much about
- 21:42him, but I trust him.
- 21:44I'm willing to put my
- 21:45trust in him. And his
- 21:47power
- 21:48to be legitimate
- 21:49has to be underpinned by
- 21:51trust. And so there is
- 21:52a direct relationship between trust
- 21:54and power
- 21:55in these
- 21:57environments that we live in.
- 21:58Right?
- 21:59We have a lot of
- 22:00power.
- 22:02They have to meet us
- 22:03with trust. But the issue
- 22:05is is that the complexity
- 22:07of what we are doing
- 22:08now has ramped up so
- 22:10much
- 22:11that actually,
- 22:15they are the people that
- 22:17we are serving
- 22:18are getting lots of different
- 22:19kinds of information everywhere.
- 22:22The complexity of what we
- 22:24do makes it difficult for
- 22:25us to be completely transparent.
- 22:27And so all of a
- 22:28sudden this trust and power
- 22:30relationship is breaking down. Right?
- 22:31Think back to a time
- 22:33fifty years ago when you
- 22:34were William Carlos Williams driving
- 22:35around in your, you you
- 22:36know, sedan writing poems in
- 22:38between patients and and giving
- 22:40paid medicine to the occasional
- 22:41person out of your bag
- 22:42where where your entire pharmacy
- 22:44was in your black bag.
- 22:45Right? There was a kind
- 22:46of transparency
- 22:47there that was radically possible
- 22:50which meant that your patients
- 22:51would pay you in chickens
- 22:52or eggs or dollars, whatever
- 22:54they had and you would
- 22:54just roll with that. Right?
- 22:57And and because you were
- 22:58that person's physician for a
- 23:00lifetime,
- 23:02there was kind of this
- 23:03unspoken thing about, yeah, I
- 23:05trust you. And and you
- 23:07knew that. You had seen
- 23:08him at your house. You
- 23:09knew he would come back.
- 23:11All your neighbors knew.
- 23:13We're in a different world
- 23:14now. Right? And so
- 23:16we have patients who are
- 23:17now
- 23:20trying to figure out the
- 23:21best treatments for themselves.
- 23:22They are on peer to
- 23:24peer networks.
- 23:25They are reading things. And
- 23:27what this has kind of
- 23:28led to is a real
- 23:29questioning of what is the
- 23:30expertise
- 23:31that we all have.
- 23:33Do we really know what
- 23:34we're talking about? Right? And
- 23:36so this book, which started
- 23:37from a,
- 23:39an essay in in,
- 23:40Politico,
- 23:42actually really gets at the
- 23:44sociology of what is happening
- 23:46to experts now. And, you
- 23:47know, you're seeing it right
- 23:49here. Right? This is a
- 23:50self styled doctor who's giving
- 23:53advice about vaccines and saying
- 23:55so much science is now
- 23:57bought.
- 23:57Right? And people are looking
- 23:59at this and believing it.
- 24:00And what it is resulting
- 24:01is is this. Right?
- 24:03Unvaxxed,
- 24:04unafraid. I mean, it seems
- 24:06preposterous.
- 24:07Right? But in fact, this
- 24:09is
- 24:10happening in our government. Right?
- 24:12So
- 24:14I just say that to
- 24:15mean that the environment that
- 24:16we are operating in has
- 24:18radically shifted.
- 24:19And when you are now
- 24:21communicating with people, you actually
- 24:23have to think of different
- 24:24levels. There's the communication at
- 24:26the level of the person
- 24:27you are sitting with in
- 24:28clinic. There's the communication of
- 24:30the level of your colleagues
- 24:32and peers.
- 24:34Right? And then there's the
- 24:35level of actually, our interactions
- 24:37as a profession with the
- 24:38public. And I would submit
- 24:40that that is a way
- 24:41in which we are now
- 24:42challenged in our communication
- 24:44to work at all of
- 24:45those levels because, actually, if
- 24:47we aren't responsible for them,
- 24:49we're just gonna get more
- 24:50of this. Right?
- 24:53Technology
- 24:54is
- 24:56upending us. And I feel
- 24:57like, you know, one of
- 24:58the things about AI is,
- 24:59yes, it's gonna be our
- 25:00great savior. It'll save us
- 25:01time in clinic. We can
- 25:02just look at our phones
- 25:03and type questions in when
- 25:05we don't know something, and
- 25:06the patient will just sit
- 25:06there and wait patiently for
- 25:07us. I'm I'm not sure
- 25:08what's supposed to happen there.
- 25:09But,
- 25:11the idea is is are
- 25:13they just gonna replace us?
- 25:14Are people just gonna be
- 25:15getting all their cancer care
- 25:16from apps and then ordering
- 25:17CT scans by themselves?
- 25:20I would just submit that
- 25:21technology has upended medicine before.
- 25:24This is part of an
- 25:26old pattern that we have
- 25:27seen a number of times
- 25:29and that we communicators,
- 25:30people who care about the
- 25:32relationships that we have with
- 25:33the people that we are
- 25:34working with,
- 25:35honestly have struggled with over
- 25:37the years. Right?
- 25:39And here, just to go
- 25:40back to Jen and her
- 25:41story for a minute,
- 25:43you know,
- 25:44Eduardo Brera and another international
- 25:46group of experts looked at
- 25:48and tried to map out
- 25:49the illness trajectories of incurable
- 25:51solid tumors. Right? Here's the
- 25:53old story. Right?
- 25:54You were good for a
- 25:55while and then you declined
- 25:57and if you had some
- 25:58kind of good treatment, it
- 25:59would push out the curve
- 26:00a little bit. Right? That
- 26:01was the classic
- 26:03kind of mental model that
- 26:05we had and continue to
- 26:06have for many kinds of
- 26:07incurable cancer. But actually,
- 26:09now there's some other things
- 26:10that are totally different. What
- 26:12happens when
- 26:13somebody starts to decline, gets
- 26:15targeted therapy, or gets a
- 26:17liver resection.
- 26:19Right? And then, actually,
- 26:20their,
- 26:22function and quality of life
- 26:23bumps back up for a
- 26:25while, and they feel like
- 26:26they are as good as
- 26:28new and are going,
- 26:29and then start to decline.
- 26:31That's a
- 26:33cultural experience that we have
- 26:35no benchmarks for and that
- 26:37patients are struggling with because
- 26:39they
- 26:40come to you and to
- 26:42me
- 26:43and say, well, I I
- 26:45won the lottery, and I
- 26:47the medicine worked, and I
- 26:48got more time, and now
- 26:49I'm not sure what I
- 26:50should be doing. Right?
- 26:52I am doing this study
- 26:53with psilocybin for people with
- 26:54metastatic cancer, and this is
- 26:56the thing that I am
- 26:57hearing over and over. Well,
- 26:59yeah. It worked, and and
- 27:00now what?
- 27:01Right? They're really not sure.
- 27:03Here's another kind of trajectory.
- 27:05You know?
- 27:06Immunotherapy,
- 27:08it keeps you going, but
- 27:09kind of at a different
- 27:10level, and then there are
- 27:11all these side effects, all
- 27:12this autoimmune stuff, all this
- 27:13stuff you have to do
- 27:14with their diet. So, actually,
- 27:16this is a way in
- 27:17which the complexity of what
- 27:19we are seeing in terms
- 27:20of clinical trajectories
- 27:22has complexified
- 27:23in a way that makes
- 27:24it much more difficult for
- 27:25us to be very
- 27:27certain with our predictions or
- 27:29to be
- 27:30reassuring that we know what's
- 27:31gonna happen next. It's super
- 27:33hard.
- 27:34Right? And and actually, our
- 27:38indecision or our ambiguity
- 27:40or uncertainty
- 27:41is often seized upon
- 27:44as a problem.
- 27:45It's often seen as
- 27:47a reason that we don't
- 27:49possess the expertise that we
- 27:50really do. So what I'm
- 27:52saying is is actually,
- 27:54our job got a little
- 27:55more complicated with all this
- 27:57new anti cancer technology.
- 27:59And and actually, that's the
- 28:01a good problem, but it's
- 28:03a new problem of the
- 28:04situation we're in. You know,
- 28:05I mentioned cancer on the
- 28:07Internet. This is in the
- 28:08American Cancer Society, I love
- 28:10this user beware.
- 28:11Right?
- 28:12Then there's this whole thing
- 28:13about finding out about your
- 28:14CAT scan results even before
- 28:15you go to your clinic.
- 28:17Right? Everybody's looking them up
- 28:18online and then doing massive
- 28:20Google searching and then coming
- 28:21to you. I think that
- 28:23has totally changed the dynamic
- 28:25of what happens in clinics.
- 28:26And and we haven't really
- 28:28figured out how to adjust
- 28:29to it. And because the
- 28:30funding for these kinds of
- 28:32studies is just, you know,
- 28:33far different than other kinds
- 28:35of studies,
- 28:37honestly, I think we're still
- 28:38struggling to know what the
- 28:39best practices are. But what
- 28:41I will tell you is
- 28:42that the effect is
- 28:44quite big. And just to
- 28:46illustrate that, I'm gonna go
- 28:47back to an old study
- 28:48I did about patients who
- 28:49wanted to have physician assisted
- 28:51suicide. This was in Washington
- 28:53state before physician assisted suicide
- 28:55or death with dignity was
- 28:56legal anywhere.
- 28:58And we did these longitudinal
- 28:59interviews with patients and patients
- 29:01who were looking for physician
- 29:02assisted suicide in their families.
- 29:04And one of them actually
- 29:06really changed me. It was
- 29:07the partner of a gay
- 29:08man
- 29:09who had advanced HIV,
- 29:12before the antiretrovirals
- 29:14ended up dying. And the
- 29:15partner recounted,
- 29:17a a last meeting with
- 29:18the doctor, where the doctor
- 29:20was talking to him about
- 29:21his
- 29:22intractable thrush. I mean, you
- 29:23guys probably younger of you
- 29:25probably can't even imagine this,
- 29:26but there was intractable thrush,
- 29:27and it actually would lead
- 29:29it was one of the
- 29:30last things that happened to
- 29:31people with advanced HIV.
- 29:33And the the quote there,
- 29:34our doctor was like, you
- 29:35do not wanna die of
- 29:36thrush. And, basically, he said
- 29:38the thrush would grow and
- 29:40shut off your esophagus so
- 29:41you wouldn't be able to
- 29:42swallow.
- 29:44My partner would drool constantly
- 29:45and end up starving to
- 29:47death. The doctor said, you
- 29:48don't wanna die like that.
- 29:50And that is the moment
- 29:51when he decided to do
- 29:52a hasten death. Right? Because
- 29:54the doctor
- 29:56didn't have a better way
- 29:58of approaching this issue of
- 30:00what happens when the illness
- 30:01gets really bad or what
- 30:02happens when the illness gets
- 30:03worse.
- 30:04This was actually the anecdote
- 30:06that made me
- 30:07think that there was something
- 30:09much bigger to communication that
- 30:11we all needed to understand.
- 30:13And you know what? This
- 30:14problem, this technology issue is
- 30:16not over. This is the
- 30:17proportion this is the number
- 30:19of medical assistance in dying
- 30:21deaths in Canada
- 30:22where both physician assisted you
- 30:24suicide and euthanasia are both,
- 30:27legal. And you will see
- 30:29that in Canada, as in
- 30:30the other countries where euthanasia
- 30:31has been legalized, the incidence
- 30:33of
- 30:34use is just going up,
- 30:36up, up, up, up. And
- 30:38I don't know that this
- 30:40is necessarily
- 30:42a bad thing. I I
- 30:43feel quite torn about, these
- 30:45practices. But what I can
- 30:46say is I think part
- 30:48of this rough reflects
- 30:50how we
- 30:51talk to and deal with
- 30:53and communicate with people about
- 30:55what they're facing. Because it's
- 30:57when they feel like we
- 30:58don't have anything more,
- 31:00you got nothing,
- 31:01that's when they go, yep.
- 31:03This is the way I'm
- 31:04gonna do this. So I
- 31:05think this is another kind
- 31:07of cautionary tale about a
- 31:09new kind of technology.
- 31:11The last my last cautionary
- 31:13tale is here. You guys
- 31:14know this epic. I'm right.
- 31:15The Elk Cancer Center uses
- 31:16epic.
- 31:17I'm just gonna compare AI
- 31:19as an example to the
- 31:20introduction of the electronic medical
- 31:22record. Like, how many of
- 31:23you are old enough to
- 31:24remember when we just wrote
- 31:25them with notes and charts?
- 31:26I know. Yeah. Yeah. Well,
- 31:27so
- 31:28the electronic medical record was
- 31:30supposed to solve all our
- 31:31problems. Right? You never had
- 31:32to go, wait. That volume
- 31:34of the chart hasn't been
- 31:35found. Right? You wouldn't have
- 31:36to suffer through some of
- 31:37your colleague's horrible handwriting.
- 31:39Right? All the meds would
- 31:40be in a nice list.
- 31:42The technology was gonna solve
- 31:43a lot of that. Right?
- 31:44Well, what happened?
- 31:46Well, actually, I would submit
- 31:48the technology has been co
- 31:49opted
- 31:50by forces that think that
- 31:52the reason for your existence
- 31:53is to bill. And the
- 31:55entire system is designed around
- 31:57maximal efficient billing.
- 32:00That doesn't leave a lot
- 32:01of space for the other
- 32:02stuff that you want. So
- 32:03for example, when I read
- 32:04the chart now, I'm like,
- 32:06what is happening with information?
- 32:08Because I feel like I'm
- 32:09reading like eighty five percent,
- 32:11you know, cut and paste.
- 32:12And and I I feel
- 32:13like in my own mind,
- 32:14I'm back to, an oral
- 32:16culture of medicine where I
- 32:17only know what's happened if
- 32:18I, like, talk to another
- 32:19person who actually saw the
- 32:20patient. Right? Because you can't
- 32:22tell from the chart.
- 32:23So I I just mentioned
- 32:25this as a way that
- 32:26saying that technology is not
- 32:28automatically gonna make us better.
- 32:29And that we,
- 32:31as the clinicians and people
- 32:32who are using it, need
- 32:34to be involved in a
- 32:36different way with AI than
- 32:38we need to than than
- 32:39we were involved with electronic
- 32:40medical records.
- 32:42You know, here's the
- 32:44study that really got
- 32:46palliative care put on the
- 32:47map. This is Jennifer Temel's
- 32:49study of people with metastatic
- 32:50non small lung cancer. Now
- 32:52kind of old, a little
- 32:53dated even she would say.
- 32:55The treatments aren't the same.
- 32:56But what it showed was
- 32:58that, patients who had early
- 33:00palliative care
- 33:01had better depression symptoms, better
- 33:04anxiety symptoms, and a better
- 33:06PHQ nine. So those are
- 33:07all measures of mood, and
- 33:08they actually lived longer. And,
- 33:10you know, what I would
- 33:11submit is that this
- 33:14improved mood and symptom control
- 33:17happened because of a multiphase
- 33:19communication process. I I was
- 33:21one of the team part
- 33:22of the team that helped
- 33:22Jennifer analyze all the notes
- 33:24from that study, that very
- 33:25first study. And what we
- 33:27saw was that, you know,
- 33:28in the beginning, there was
- 33:29a lot of stuff about,
- 33:31you know, relationship,
- 33:32discussing the cancer treatment,
- 33:34illness understanding.
- 33:36The real decision making came
- 33:38much later. And and what
- 33:40that says to me is
- 33:41that when you are working
- 33:42with a patient, you know,
- 33:43the communication
- 33:44that you do
- 33:46is completely
- 33:47contextualized
- 33:48to the moment that you
- 33:49are in with that cancer.
- 33:51And the moment that they
- 33:52are in is as much
- 33:54about their mindset
- 33:55as about what you were
- 33:56reading in the chart about
- 33:58their
- 33:58Cigna Terra or whatever, you
- 34:00know, whatever product prognostic thing
- 34:01that you were using these
- 34:02days. You know, the nuts
- 34:04and bolts of this, like,
- 34:05there are some fabulous people
- 34:07here, Jen and Laura and
- 34:09others,
- 34:10who will actually take you
- 34:12through the kinds of experiences
- 34:14that you actually need to
- 34:15get this under your belt.
- 34:17But what I'm saying I
- 34:18am just showing this to
- 34:19say that there is a
- 34:22fair amount of data that
- 34:24shows how communication
- 34:26actually has a real influence
- 34:28on the kinds of medical
- 34:29outcomes that we would call
- 34:30solid medical outcomes. And, of
- 34:32course, you know, more technology,
- 34:34telehealth versus in person, and
- 34:36it turns out telehealth is
- 34:37pretty good. It turns out
- 34:38you can do
- 34:40a a great deal of
- 34:41this work
- 34:42on Zoom. Who knew? Right?
- 34:45But what this also showed
- 34:47was that there was a
- 34:48difference in the rate of
- 34:49hospice referrals,
- 34:51at the end of life.
- 34:52And so there are some
- 34:53decisions where it looks like
- 34:54there is some intangible
- 34:56quality
- 34:57of being together in person.
- 34:59And the one of the
- 35:00reasons I'm so grateful to
- 35:01all of you for coming
- 35:02today in line, because I
- 35:03don't go to a grand
- 35:04rounds very much either, honestly,
- 35:06is there is an intangible
- 35:08quality of being here together
- 35:11and having a common experience
- 35:14and walking out of the
- 35:15room after lunch and going,
- 35:16what did you think about
- 35:17that guy? Right? It's part
- 35:19of the whole
- 35:20ritual, but it's also part
- 35:22of
- 35:23what helps us process what
- 35:25what we're dealing with here.
- 35:27You know, so
- 35:28the other thing that I
- 35:29would wanna say from summarizing
- 35:31all the research is communication
- 35:33works as a recursive process.
- 35:35Right? There is this thing
- 35:36you are doing with information.
- 35:38There are ways patients are
- 35:39participating, and you go back
- 35:41and forth and around, and
- 35:42you influence each other. And,
- 35:44you know, what I would
- 35:45say is that there are
- 35:46trainees who ask me, well,
- 35:47what about when the patient
- 35:48says such and such?
- 35:50I can't do my skills
- 35:51protocol or whatever. I wanted
- 35:53to get to this and
- 35:54I couldn't. And and you
- 35:55know what I would say
- 35:55is that's part of this
- 35:58process that you are in
- 35:59and the way that you
- 36:01adapt yourself and adapt this
- 36:03communication to what they are
- 36:05after, what they need,
- 36:07the things that they need
- 36:08that they can ask for,
- 36:09and the things that they
- 36:10can't ask for. Right? That
- 36:12they are,
- 36:14too embarrassed
- 36:15to ask for, too ashamed
- 36:18to ask for,
- 36:20too whatever.
- 36:21Those are the ways in
- 36:23which you make this process,
- 36:25really go.
- 36:26You know,
- 36:28will machines be as good
- 36:29as this as we are?
- 36:30Right? That's kind of the
- 36:31AI question. Right? Like, now
- 36:32you can have a chatbot
- 36:33that does your therapy, and
- 36:34you can text in the
- 36:35middle of the night and
- 36:36all that stuff. And there's
- 36:37some data that suggests that
- 36:38teenagers use the text in
- 36:40the middle of the night,
- 36:40and they're texting their chatbot
- 36:42at three in the morning
- 36:43to say, I feel like,
- 36:43you know, cutting myself.
- 36:46What do I think about
- 36:47that?
- 36:48What I wanna take you
- 36:50to is a little bit
- 36:51of background about how physicians
- 36:53think and behave.
- 36:54And so this is some
- 36:55research that we did, with
- 36:57a group that actually does
- 36:58interviews with physicians,
- 37:01where they ask them to
- 37:02bring in images. And these
- 37:03images are actually all images
- 37:05that physicians brought in in
- 37:07response to a question about
- 37:08what does palliative care mean
- 37:09to you? What are you
- 37:10trying to do?
- 37:12And I mean this as
- 37:13a sense of, like, describing
- 37:15the landscape of where you
- 37:16are. So these people said,
- 37:18I have to tell people
- 37:20the right information and path.
- 37:21It is so confusing.
- 37:23I feel like I am
- 37:24the guidepost here. Right?
- 37:26My job is to be
- 37:27informational.
- 37:29My rules are based on
- 37:31objective data. Right? I am
- 37:32trying
- 37:33to be systematic.
- 37:35I am looking for the
- 37:36protocol. I am looking for
- 37:38guidelines.
- 37:39Right?
- 37:40And
- 37:42they don't allow themselves to
- 37:43make mistakes. Right? It's been
- 37:44hammered into us. Right? That
- 37:45if you fail, it is
- 37:47your fault. So you have
- 37:48to be at the top
- 37:49of your game, and you
- 37:50have to be perfect.
- 37:51And that kind of perfectionism
- 37:54has rolled into a whole
- 37:56syndrome of
- 37:57physician
- 37:58well-being or on the flip
- 38:00side, physician depression that results
- 38:02has resulted
- 38:03over decades
- 38:05in physicians having the highest
- 38:06suicide rate of any white
- 38:08collar profession. Right? So there
- 38:10is a cost to this
- 38:11and there is a reason
- 38:12for you to keep an
- 38:13eye on this. Right?
- 38:15And then and this is
- 38:17part of how we physicians
- 38:19manage the complexity of the
- 38:21information that we're dealing with
- 38:22is that we rely on
- 38:24algorithms to get the best
- 38:25care. In in cardiology and
- 38:26in oncology, we use algorithmic
- 38:28guidelines.
- 38:29We use judgments.
- 38:31And that, to my mind,
- 38:32is not only a way
- 38:33of creating best practices, but
- 38:35it's a way of reducing
- 38:36the complex. Because if there's
- 38:37too much complexity, you just
- 38:38actually can't function because there's
- 38:40so many details and so
- 38:41many things to remember.
- 38:43So
- 38:44in all that, I I'm
- 38:46gonna show you one last
- 38:47picture of Jen. This is
- 38:48the first picture in, Angelo's
- 38:50book. And he now lives
- 38:51in Cleveland, but he gave
- 38:52me permission to use, his
- 38:54photographs,
- 38:55in when I was talking
- 38:57to other clinicians
- 38:59to just remind
- 39:00us and remind me to
- 39:02talk about the fact that
- 39:03amidst all these algorithms,
- 39:05there are many sides of
- 39:06people that you will never
- 39:07see
- 39:08in clinic that, in fact,
- 39:10are at at the core
- 39:11of them.
- 39:13Yeah. You know, when we
- 39:14are talking to them, you
- 39:15know, our our can we
- 39:16be as empathic as a
- 39:18chatbot? Right? You guys probably
- 39:19saw this thing. It's about
- 39:20how chatbots are more empathic
- 39:22than
- 39:22than,
- 39:23physicians, and their their responses
- 39:25were rated as more empathic
- 39:27and, you know, what do
- 39:28I think about that? Well,
- 39:29here's what I would say.
- 39:31Don't be fooled by analysis
- 39:34of empathic words.
- 39:35Right? Empathy
- 39:37does not come from words.
- 39:38Right? And now there's even
- 39:39this thing about fake AI
- 39:41therapists
- 39:42that are making recommendations
- 39:44to anorexic people to eat
- 39:46less,
- 39:47to not worry about cutting
- 39:49themselves,
- 39:49it's, you know, the whole
- 39:51next wave of what we
- 39:53are gonna be facing, what
- 39:54what you are gonna be
- 39:55seeing in clinic. Right? It's
- 39:56completely crazy. Right? This is
- 39:57from the paper yesterday.
- 39:59Right? This is how fast
- 40:00this is unfolding.
- 40:02Right?
- 40:05So I would just like
- 40:06to pause with all this
- 40:07in in this question of,
- 40:09you know, where does empathy
- 40:11come from?
- 40:12To, cite my zen teacher,
- 40:14this is Roshi Joan Halifax
- 40:16in Santa Fe, New Mexico.
- 40:18I mean, what she teaches
- 40:19is that empathy
- 40:21is
- 40:23something that is embodied, that
- 40:25you are able to
- 40:27experience
- 40:28because you possess a body.
- 40:29And when you see that
- 40:30picture of Jen
- 40:32and something in that resonates,
- 40:34it actually resonates in your
- 40:36body and the effective parts
- 40:37of your brain. And that
- 40:39experience of empathy
- 40:41is what allows your cognition
- 40:44to process
- 40:45what that means to be
- 40:46having an experience like that.
- 40:48Because even if you haven't
- 40:49been her,
- 40:50you you might have had
- 40:51an experience that's kind of
- 40:53like that or you might
- 40:54have worked with a patient
- 40:55who's kind of like that,
- 40:57and your ability to simulate
- 40:59that within your own body
- 41:01is what creates that empathic
- 41:02moment.
- 41:04Roshi Joan would also say
- 41:06that what compassion is is
- 41:09compassion is a response that
- 41:11comes from you emergently, that
- 41:13there is no formula for
- 41:15compassion. There is no thing
- 41:17you can say. There is
- 41:19no gesture you can always
- 41:20do.
- 41:21That
- 41:22compassion is a unique response
- 41:24in every moment to a
- 41:25unique situation between two people.
- 41:28And what
- 41:39process
- 41:40to happen,
- 41:41to work from a core
- 41:42set of ethical values,
- 41:45and to
- 41:46pause long enough to allow
- 41:48that moment to unfold. Right?
- 41:50And so
- 41:51what this is saying, I
- 41:53think, is within us. There
- 41:54is,
- 41:55a kind of belonging, a
- 41:57kind of community, a kind
- 41:58of expertise that is deeper
- 42:00than your personality.
- 42:01Right?
- 42:03And how do I know
- 42:04that? Well, I know it
- 42:06from talking to patients who
- 42:07have received palliative care, who
- 42:09are receiving the kind of
- 42:10care that you give, and
- 42:11this is what they talk
- 42:11about. They don't talk about,
- 42:13you know, having a lot
- 42:14of services. They don't talk
- 42:15about having the latest algorithm.
- 42:17What they talk about is
- 42:19they talk about feeling validated.
- 42:21They talk about feeling given
- 42:22back agency.
- 42:24They talk about feeling guided.
- 42:26They talk about
- 42:27developing a new identity that
- 42:30allows them to live well
- 42:32in the face of a
- 42:33serious illness. Right? And so
- 42:34here's what they say. They
- 42:35say illness is a thief.
- 42:37It came into my life
- 42:38uninvited. It took a lot
- 42:39from me. It left me
- 42:41in a place of devastation.
- 42:43This woman brought this image
- 42:44of the California wildfires
- 42:46as as an example of
- 42:48how she felt after being
- 42:49diagnosed. I'm angry at my
- 42:50illness for what has done
- 42:52to me.
- 42:53And palliative care and all
- 42:54the work that you do
- 42:56as communicators
- 42:58can flip that around. Right?
- 42:59You they choose it to
- 43:01they choose to bring you
- 43:02into your their lives.
- 43:04You help them recuperate mentally
- 43:06and physically.
- 43:08You put them in a
- 43:09place of stability and
- 43:10clarity, and you motivate them
- 43:12to continue forward. Right? That
- 43:14is the real work that
- 43:16you are doing with the
- 43:17communication. It's not about getting
- 43:19code status seeds or signing
- 43:20these things or putting your,
- 43:21you know,
- 43:23advanced care plan in Epic.
- 43:24What you're really doing is
- 43:26this. Right? And and, of
- 43:27course, in VitalTalk, what we
- 43:29tried to do was set
- 43:29up a whole bunch of
- 43:30conditions to,
- 43:33allow that to happen and
- 43:34allow you to build a
- 43:36foundation that you would not
- 43:37have to think about so
- 43:38much so that you can
- 43:39focus in on the real
- 43:41work. And, actually, the web
- 43:42designer that I was working
- 43:43with at the time, he
- 43:44said, you should just put
- 43:45up the pictures of the
- 43:46people because, actually, this is
- 43:48really about
- 43:49being a person
- 43:51and being yourself while you
- 43:53were being a doctor. And
- 43:54in fact, he was totally
- 43:55right and we are still
- 43:56using portraits of our original,
- 43:59group.
- 44:00And I just wanted to
- 44:01give a shout out to
- 44:01doctor Cropp, who's actually one
- 44:03of our very first
- 44:05study subjects. Right? Like, I
- 44:07know him from way back
- 44:08and,
- 44:09have followed his career over
- 44:11the years and and really
- 44:12thrilled to see him as
- 44:13as one of your community.
- 44:17The other way that I
- 44:19know that the internal part
- 44:20of you really matters is
- 44:22with some recent work that
- 44:23I had been doing with,
- 44:24psilocybin for doctors and nurses
- 44:26with burnout and depression from
- 44:27their work during the pandemic.
- 44:29There were a lot of
- 44:30doctors and nurses who felt
- 44:32like,
- 44:33something has changed. There were
- 44:35cases that broke me,
- 44:37and I don't feel the
- 44:37same. And so we had
- 44:39a randomized study for those
- 44:41people.
- 44:42We
- 44:44did some psychotherapy.
- 44:46We gave them
- 44:47synthesized psilocybin,
- 44:49and this is what happened.
- 44:51This left panel is all
- 44:53the people who had placebos
- 44:55instead of psilocybin but had
- 44:56the therapy.
- 44:59The yellow lines
- 45:00each line is an individual
- 45:02person who had psilocybin therapy.
- 45:04And you can see there's
- 45:05a pretty big difference
- 45:07in their,
- 45:08symptoms of depression at day
- 45:11twenty eight after treatment, and
- 45:12these these improvements
- 45:14persisted to
- 45:16six months. So what the
- 45:17reason I'm mentioning it here,
- 45:18and I I am not
- 45:19saying that you have to
- 45:20have psilocybin to be a
- 45:21good communicator,
- 45:22is that what happened here
- 45:23is we didn't change any
- 45:24of their external
- 45:26attributes. We didn't change anything
- 45:27about their environment.
- 45:29The only thing we changed
- 45:30was them. We changed how
- 45:32they felt internally about themselves,
- 45:34and actually, that had a
- 45:36huge
- 45:37lasting impression.
- 45:39So
- 45:40I just mean that to
- 45:41say that what you do
- 45:43with yourselves
- 45:44and what you do with
- 45:45your teams
- 45:46actually has tremendous value
- 45:49in how you yourself will,
- 45:53persist through now what is
- 45:54a really difficult time.